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Years ago, a movie was made by this same title. It was about four women, all extraordinarily successful, “holding their breaths” until the day they could feel comfortable in a committed relationship. The movie showed just how uncomfortable each woman was, all in different ways. The overall sense of life for these four was one of just waiting for the day when they could take that breath, drop their shoulders back into a more normal position, and focus on…